The Alchemized Spirit

The Audacity to Dream Big, Rewiring the Inner Critic & Current Life Update | Ep. 16

• Ashleigh V

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Have you ever felt the universe nudging you towards something greater, but doubt whispered you couldn't? That tug-of-war between your potential and your fears is the crux of my tale, where I transformed from a struggling actress to an empowered coach. Walk with me through the chapters of my life and how embracing your inner critic can lead to a fulfilling journey of self-discovery and soul evolution.

This episode is a heartfelt conversation about hitting rock bottom and using that space to rebuild stronger and wiser than before. I lay bare the turning points that led to a revival in my acting career and the birth of a coaching venture that now thrives on helping others realize their dreams. Dive into the raw, personal narratives of battling depression and anxiety and emerge with me into the resilience and joy found in pursuing one's passion, all while navigating the healing power of spiritual growth.

I wrap up with an invitation to awaken the greatness within you. Let's shed the weight of doubt and step boldly towards the calling of our most authentic lives. If the dreamer in you is ready to be stirred, if you're on the brink of answering your own call to greatness, this episode is your sign to forge ahead. Together, let's rise to the occasion and embrace the abundance waiting for us just beyond our fears.

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Hi everyone, how are you? This is a live recording. I wanted to give you guys a bit of a recent live update, a story update, because I've been thinking a lot about what I do as a coach, how I got here, and my story, my origin story that I hi, welcome, welcome everyone. Yeah, my origin story about why I started this business, why I became a coach a couple of years ago I think it was two and a half, three years ago that all of this happened now in this big transformation, and I had that story down really well about four years, and it's on my website, it's in my About Me section and I'm going to go over it a little bit now. But I was having a think about it this morning and about what my life is like now compared to them, and I just add so many ahas about going after your dreams, about my story, about how it feeds into coaching, how the dick, the deepest inner critic, plays such a role in all of that, and I actually landed up filming this like it all in stories, but then it ended up being like 16 stories. So I was like you know what? I'm going to record a podcast episode on this and that's what I'm doing right now, and then I thought why don't I just go live as well? So, whether you're listening to this on the podcast or whether you're listening to this live, welcome. I'm really, really excited to share this with you, because there are so many golden nuggets here that I feel like are going to shift you.

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Something I'm really into at the moment is how people have these codes right. Like, people have certain things that they've unlocked in their soul's wisdom, in their body, in their life, and they have codes and they can gift us codes. Taylor Swift has certain codes that she can gift us, which is a whole other thing I'll talk about. I've been avoiding being into Taylor Swift for so long, but even Beyonce Beyonce has serious codes that she's imparting. When you listen to her music, they're just like Elon Musk he's got his own set of codes, and so I've just been thinking a lot about all this stuff and I want to impart some of these codes, and I'm hoping that by listening to this, if you're watching this recording, if you're listening to this on the, this is for the dreamers. This is for the people that want big lives, that are being called forth and forward into a big life, and I actually recorded a reel about this in 90 seconds, so you'll probably see it later.

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But essentially, I just want to start the story by saying that if you have a yearning in your heart to do something great in this world, to live a bigger life, to be successful in what you do, to have an impact on others, to share your gifts, to change lives and maybe it's not lives but change your industry. Maybe you're in a certain industry and it's not directly service related, but it's it's product, it's people to be a master at what you came here to do and to see success in your life as a result. If you are that type of person and you have that, that uh seed that has been planted in you, that is, this yearning for more. I want you to know that. God put it there. God put it there. God put it there. God in the universe placed it within your heart because they are calling you forward to be the person that fulfills that. But more than be the person, it's to become that person. It's to answer that calling and to go on this journey. It's called the hero's journey. It's like every movie that we watched. Right, these characters get called like 10 minutes into the movie like everything's normal and then after about 10, if you watch every movie 10 to 12 minutes into the movie, that main character gets a call to go on a challenge or a journey. Like, if you think of Frodo, he had to leave Hobbiton. Was it called Hobbiton the Shire? Sorry, the Shire? Frodo had to leave the Shire, so we're all. You know. Moana was called to leave the mountain.

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I talk about this a lot because there's a reason why every single movie is designed this way and there's a reason why it unlocks so much in us. And if you are someone who has that calling, god has placed that in you because they want you, the universe wants you, god wants you to go on this journey to learn the lessons that you need to learn along the way, because they are meant for your soul's evolution. And if you do not answer that call, you get stuck. Now life is hard. No matter. Life can be hard, no matter what you choose to do, whether you choose to stay the same or whether you choose to go on this dream journey. Because the other thing I'll tell you is that I've always been someone who's followed my dreams. It's not an easy road either, but either way.

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What I see happening is those that go after their dreams learn the most important things about themselves. They learn wisdom, they expand in ways that are unimaginable, and the people that stay the same and face hardship, that same. It's almost like the more you deny that calling, the more a piece of your soul dies every little day. Until you've lost that flame, you've lost that essence of being alive, you've lost that vitality of being alive. And so not everyone gets called in the same way. Not everyone has that seed, that seed of fire that was placed there.

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And so, if it is placed within you, I'm here to tell you that it is your duty to your soul's evolution to answer it. And the only thing that's getting in your way, the only thing that's getting in your way is your dick, your deepest inner critic. And so it is this journey to face that inner critic right. Your self-doubt is so normal, your imposter syndrome is so normal, your inner critic is so normal. That's part of the resistance in the journey, and it's a journey of rewiring, of facing that part of yourself and rewiring it into who you are truly meant to be, because the inner critic I like to think of it as being a manifestation of the devil or of fear-based energy. Maybe the devil's not ideal, because at the end of the day, we also want to befriend our inner critic and a whole other podcast episode or a whole other live actually, I have a live on my Instagram page about how to deal with the inner critic, but it's not the truth of who we are, and so it becomes a journey of choosing our truth and stepping into that loving part of ourself all the time. So I'll just say that to start off with.

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The other thing is my origin story. So I was thinking about how far I've come and about how I started this coaching business and if you don't know already, essentially the short version of it is I was on the brink of turning 30. It was the first year of COVID. I didn't work at all as an actress. I had had some success in the previous 10 years as an actress, or I'd probably worked five years at that stage five, six years full-time as an actress, after studying and everything, and I had some success, but it wasn't bombastic. And then COVID hit and I didn't work for a whole year over a year actually and I burned out all my savings and I came into 2021 depressed, burnt out, anxious, so like just reeling. I just remember the feeling was like I was just like you, like your swing, like how, and I was turning 30 and I was just my mind just couldn't understand, like how I'd gotten to 30 years old and not had my dreams materialize the way that I thought they were going to. Because, like I said before, I'm a big dreamer. I don't have a problem dreaming big.

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My learning and what I've mastered is making the gap between where I am and where I wanna be joyful, expansive, peaceful and exciting and blissful. That's my thing making that gap and there will always be a gap because I will always be dreaming bigger Instead of making the gap between where I wanna be and where I am right now like torture. You know, oh, I'm not good enough. Just because it hasn't happened again Doesn't mean that it like means it's not going to happen. Um, because I'm not where I want to be. That must be a reflection of my worth or my goodness or my expertise. All of that is bullshit, and I am. That's what I do with clients as well. My zone of genius is to help them believe in themselves in that gap. And then what happens actually, when you find all this joy and bliss and living your life in the gap right. What are you just going to wait until this thing materializes to actually enjoy your life? It's bullshit. So I've mastered believing in yourself in that gap and creating the vibrational energy of abundance and joy in that gap. And then what happens? The gap gets way shorter and way shorter amount of time.

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So I got to this age of 30 and I was just like what have I done with my life? So I signed up at the time, by the grace of God, because I was so exhausted actually, like I had no, like I was really burnt out and something in me I was about to quit. I was like I'm going to quit. I actually applied for a corporate job through a friend, was a bit mortified because the only thing I could write on my CV was actress and waitress and that was it. And I was like, oh my God, why do they even want to see my CV? But I did somewhere along the line. I've done a lot of things.

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I did get a finance and economics degree from like 10 years ago, so that I think saved me for this, this corporate job interview, and, um, that I was actually offered the job, but it was quite a small amount of money. And, um, I was faced with this. It was a full-time job. It meant that I would full on, have to quit acting. But I was so desperate at the time, just to have some kind of an income. I was just like really, really struggling.

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And luckily I have an amazing mom. And she was like I told her about the job and she's the first person to tell me to get real. And she was like oh no, ashley, you will die, you will die in that job. And I was like what? And she's like, no, no, no, no, just, you were thinking of doing a yoga teacher training. Just start that, do that, everything will fall into place. And I was like, oh my God, okay, fine, I'll just give it a couple of more months.

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And then, around the same time, this mindset and manifestation course for actors circled around into my field and I decided to just give it one more shot. I was like, cool, I'm 30 this year, let me give it one more shot this year. And if it doesn't nothing happens, then cool, I'll just, I'll try again next year. And what happened was in the space of six weeks, I had the greatest success at that stage of my acting career that I had ever had. In six weeks I worked with an award-winning South African director one of the top directors here, in a role that was like a big role in a movie. I was on South Africa's biggest broadcasting network, sabc one in a TV series playing the coolest characters like the coolest, coolest characters. I was shot to commercial. I was so busy. I want to say I'd never been like I'd never gone from job to job to job as an actress. Like that's just actually unheard of. And this was because I, because of like what I teach now right, like getting I destroyed my dick. That's essentially what happened.

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I took my inner critic and is like an ongoing story and I remember dancing to Jerusalem if you know the song. And I, because I wanted to feel joy for where I was, I was like, okay, fine, I'm in Joburg, but I'm going to find, like I'm going to find a way to love Joburg. I have to find a way to love where I am and find joy and find abundance in where I am, even though I'm freaking broke, even though none of my dreams have worked out, even though I feel like I'm 30 and I'm a total failure. I made it my commitment to find the spiritual truth and joy and abundance in where I was, even though it was so left field. So, you guys, it was in the opposite direction of everything that I imagined for myself at 30. And through mastering all this, through mastering my inner critic, I manifested all this work.

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And then, to cut another long story short, three weeks into that program it's a six module program I actually only did the first three modules because she got us into this meditative state and she asked us if you had a million dollars and you couldn't fail, where would you be? This is a great question to ask. If you had a million dollars and you couldn't fail, where would you be in a year's time? What would you do? What would you do? And so she's like just write, just free flow, right? So I get my pen out and it was just stream of consciousness writing, writing, writing, writing. And I get to the end and I put my pen down and I look at the page and I gasped. I was like. I was like I didn't write acting anywhere on this page and I was like, shit, I need to write acting.

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And the whole page, you guys, the whole page was about helping others, helping people, empowering women, traveling the world and, to be honest, that was always my dream. My dream, more than an actress, was to work for the UN and to help people. That's not my dream anymore, because I don't think the UN is actually legit anymore and I've got some questions that I'm not going to go into now, but the idea is the same. I wanted to work for the UN and I wanted to help people and then I had this acting talent that I was really good at and I wasn't really good at anything else. At school. That was the thing I was the best at and I was like cool, I'll be an actress and then I'll use my acting thing to help people and bring awareness to people, like Angelina Jolie style, right, like that was kind of my plan and I'm like why am I waiting? Why am I waiting for this dream to happen so that I can help the world? And clearly it's not actually that important to me, because I didn't even write it down on this page. So that was a huge aha for me and at that time I'd been thinking of being a coach for a year and a half and I put down that pen and I was like, fuck it, I need to become a coach.

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Also, what was on that page was like working with NGOs, women empowerment, everything. I went and got certified as a coach and then I also co-founded an NGO at the time, which I don't have time to get into that story but I literally met two women on a WhatsApp group after the South African riots and we started a foundation NGO to help micro businesses get back on their feet after they were looted during this time. And we helped 15 businesses get back on their feet after they were looted during this time and we helped 15 businesses get back on their feet. So, and that was like so random, so I did like I can't even tell you how random that was Like I was praying to God around that time. I was devastated with the riots. I it was a very dark time for our country and I was crying and I was just saying to God, use me, I'm here, like I'm this able-bodied person I would help me to help people. And then that NGO came together then and it's still running. We're not as like we don't run it full-time, but when things come up, we've got this thing and we like kind of now a social disaster relief NGO so wild, okay. So that was my original story story and I've been thinking lately okay, it's been two and a half years now. What is my updated story? And, um, the reason I wanted to, the aha that I had, because since then I've started this coaching business. Such a joy for me, you have no idea. I love business, I love coaching and helping people and I love business.

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I come from a family of entrepreneurs. Everyone in my family is an entrepreneur. The way I was raised was go like, what's your passion, go make either do it or go make a business out of it. So my sister, who was an actress for many years, she started an acting school. My other sister was, um, is obsessed with dogs and animals. She started the first like bougie dog daycare in Cape town ever a number of years ago and she sold that business. Um, yeah, my family was my mom owns a school, so she's a teacher and she started and owns literally a school. She actually sold it last year as well. So my family's very like just find your passion and make a business out of it, and I love I didn't realize how much I would love the business side of coaching as well, and I've made a lot of.

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I've had a lot of success and strides, I think, in such a short amount of time, because I don't know. I just love business and I love marketing and I love messaging and I love showing up here. So, yeah, I was thinking what's my updated story? And yesterday I wild. Yesterday I booked the biggest commercial of my life, the biggest paycheck. Wild. In December, I booked the biggest movie role of my life for a Canadian feature film that's coming out on their version of Netflix and I shot that for three weeks and that was amazing and I played a spiritual wellness influencer. So don't even get it Like how the universe put that together, I do not know. I also got stories about that on my podcast and elsewhere.

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Um, and there was this time where I felt like I would have to quit, maybe like let the acting go, because I'm like clearly that's not like my number one passion anymore, but I still love it and I'm in this beautiful. The aha that I had this morning was like I'm quite stubborn and I like to do things my way, and what I realized this morning was that I now have two dreams that I'm working on, two dreams that I'm fulfilling and working on, and it's the dream of being an actress. And it's the dream of being this actress and it's the dream of being this coach and having this world class business all over the place and helping people and helping women believe in themselves and step into their full power and to them go after their dreams. And it's working. You guys, I don't know what to tell you, but it's actually working. And I had this moment of like, like, how dare I have the audacity to now have two dreams that I'm going after, that I have no idea, and I'm just in such a chilled, beautiful, patient place with both of these things. You know, my coaching business is doing really, really well and it's not at the level of my dream, but it's doing really well. My acting career not at the level of, maybe, my dream, actually, I don't even know if I have, like, the A-list dream anymore, but they're both working.

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And the reason I wanted to share this with you is because you also get to have the audacity to go after whatever it is that you want and, like I said in the beginning of this live, it's your soul's destiny. God is calling you forward If you have this idea, if you have this vision, if you have this seed in your heart and I know it comes from the heart, sometimes it comes from the solar plexus you know this like yearning, like I've got to do this thing, I've got to help these people, or I've got to start this company, or I've got to break away and do my own thing, or I've got to get to the top of my company because I want to be the expert I want to be in in my excellence, it's no mistake. And not everyone has that calling and that's beautiful and that's fine and they they land up living a different, like it's not. I don't think this is for everyone, but the seed is for everyone. The seed that is placed is for everyone to fulfill. And so I wanted to share that updated story because I want to call you into your own audacity and I want to tell you that the only thing that's standing in the way of you and fulfilling that thing and getting to a next level of success in that thing, so's standing in the way of you and fulfilling that thing and getting to a next level of success in that thing, so that you can just get to the next chapter.

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The next chapter, the next level is your dick. The only thing is your inner critic. It's that thing of like oh, I should do this thing, or maybe and it's not money, it's not this, it's not that I don't want to hear that. If you're watching this on a phone, you have options. Okay, you have these moments where you're like, maybe I should ask that person, or maybe I should do, maybe you should do it this way, or maybe I should sign up for that course, or maybe I should work with that coach, maybe I should reach out to that person, or maybe this is a way I can get money to start this thing. That is some really good common sense. That is what I call the sass, the self-assured and sassy sage in you, the wise part of you going that is a great option, that is a possibility.

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And then what happens? The dick, the deepest inner critic, goes oh no, that's stupid, that won't work, don't do that. You can't say that. It's wrong to ask for that, it's wrong to do that. What if that fails? What if that? And that push pull is so painful for people, it's so frustrating, and I know I've been there and I still sometimes have a couple of days where I find myself in this push pool and then I realized, oh yeah, what's happened here is I've slipped into dick territory and my inner critic is now like my brain is now recircuiting along the neural pathways of my inner critic and I have a lot of practices to get back in and a lot of my practices are actually spiritual. So, yes, there's the neuroscience and the rewiring, but what we're seeing actually today is that spirituality is neuroscience, like if you want meditation, for instance, like if you want to know how to maximize the neuro, you know the neurology in your brain and your nervous system like meditation anyway. But I use spiritual practices and my spiritual beliefs and my connection to a spiritual power to help me to shift back nowadays, because I've done the deep inner work I've done, I know what my beliefs are and I've rewired them and I just I don't really don't believe things anymore.

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There's a recent belief that I'll share with you and be really honest, which is like I had an amazing meditation in the bath and the belief was I don't have what it takes. The belief was I don't have what it takes and I struggle with ADHD. I'm a very clearly a very creative person. I don't want to make the ADHD thing a thing, but like I just got diagnosed a couple of months ago and like a lot of my life is now making sense. I don't want to make it a thing, but it is present. And even if it's not ADHD, it's just my brain and my self is very creative. I love I'm like a visionary creation the step-by-step admin stuff, the hardcore, boring steps for me at least. I really struggle. I really struggle to get them done and I always feel like there's more in my business to do than what I'm capable of doing. So I have this little belief which is that I don't have what it takes. And when I start to doubt myself, that's what comes up.

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And it's very fascinating because when I look at other successful people in this industry, my favorite thing is to well, my Dick's favorite thing is to look at their background and come up with reasons why they are more like better executive functioners than me. So, for instance, amanda Francis is, um, she did a PhD, like she was a PhD candidate. So I'm like, well, of course she has a successful business because she clearly has the studying capabilities which is such bullshit because I studied too, anyway. Then I look at someone like Catherine Zanchina and I'm like well, she was a medical student, so clearly she also has these executive functioning skills that I don't have. And it's just so interesting because, first of all, I've created a lot. I actually my executive functioning skills are fine.

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But also I know people are most likely like, depending on what your dick wants you to believe, it's always going to look for evidence. So I know a lot of people are probably looking at me and being like, oh well, she was an actress and so she's like so comfortable with being seen online and so comfortable with putting herself out there. You know, if that's someone's inner critic thing, which is like I'm not comfortable, I'm not okay being seen and I'm not like good on camera or whatever, everyone's going to look at me and be like, oh well, of course she's, she's going to be successful, and I'm not going to be successful because she's an actress and she can do that, you know. So this will cause she's an actress and she can do that, you know. So just, really, it's like the wildness of it, like we're all just in our own little bubbles with these like rose colored glasses and everyone's color is different and like this. But yeah, I hope I'm making sense.

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It's like everyone's perception is so contingent upon these, these inner woundings and these inner core beliefs and, like I said, with the universe calling us forward into our soul's evolution, is at every point I get to meet these wounds, these wounds of my inner critic, and my inner critic used to say very different things. My inner critic used to say that I don't work hard or that I'm not good enough. I don't believe those things anymore. I said that in my acting career. I don't believe those things anymore. But now, like, the latest one is like, I don't, like I don't have what it takes in my executive functioning skills. And that probably goes back to when I was 10 years old and put on Ritalin as a child and maybe didn't fit in.

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I had a lot of people telling me that I'm disorganized and I'm this and I'm that, and so I get to work on this next level. And last night I had a really beautiful spiritual experience where I let go of that idea that I don't have what it takes because of my brain, because I'm not like, because I'm not a good you know, because I'm more creative, like we just love to tell stories. Hey, we love to tell stories because we want to stay safe and because we're scared and because we care so much. But last night I did a really beautiful spiritual experience where I let go of that belief and I invited and I have what it takes. I have what it takes and I incorporated that into my cells, literally into my cells, and then I have this beautiful spiritual practice, which is so important to me when I work with people.

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And the spiritual practice is having a very intimate relationship with a higher power. Whatever you want to call it, it can be God, it can be a Christian God, it can be the universe, it can be Allah, it can be anyone, but having a close relationship with that power, because that is going to help you to remember that you are a child of God, that you are God depending on your beliefs, that you have the whole universe inside of you. And when you are in line with that, think of how easy it is for you to believe in yourself and to pick out the positive vibrations, to pick out the joy, to pick out the bliss, to pick out the self-belief. If you look at very religious people, that's something they've kind of got down, like they're really there's I mean, there's a lot of things they don't have down. And I'm not saying everyone, but if you look at, like the people that are very much in their faith, they've really like they. They they eat, sleep, breathe this like I'm a child of God and I'm going to speak about Christians because that's how I grew up and I'm most familiar with that. But like you know that they're a child of God and Jesus and they're I mean, they're worthy because Jesus died for their sins and it's just like this worthiness runs through them. And so it's really important to me when I work with people to have them develop whatever's true to them but their own spiritual practice, and to also let go and this is the tricky part of trying to get something from that practice, because that's where you really that's where you really saw. Because if you and this is the issue that I see with the new age movement and manifestation and people becoming spiritual just to manifest, well you're going to run into trouble, you're not touching something true and deep. If you're just doing a spiritual practice to get something, the trick is to let go of trying to get anything, and that's true surrender. And then the irony is that when you live like that, the manifestations come bigger and faster. So they do come. But I'm also trying to get people to understand that that's not why you should be doing it and that if you master loving your life, you know, in my neutralized phase it's like I want you to understand that you are already love and that there is already abundance in your life and that you have the capability to experience moments of your day, no matter how hard it is, that are blissful, no matter what is going on in your 3d reality. And when you start to pick like you're probably not going to become a master in it, because not even I am like the sex in master shit but to actually have a relationship with that spiritual principle that you don't need anything outside of yourself to be happy, joyous and free, when you start from there and you start from that truth because that is the core principle and truth of spirituality and the human existence and the human existence then you're kind of like unstoppable right, because again we're trying to manifest or we're trying to get these things or these goals or these successes because at the end of the day, we think they will make us happy, joyous and free. So what if you create that before it gets in? So what if you create that before it gets in? Yeah, I'll let that sit.

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I don't know how long everyone has been here for If you're listening on the podcast, this is. I'm also live on Instagram, so that's what I wanted to share with you. My work I am taking on. I have a spot for a one-on-one client, one South African, one international. Someone joined end of last week so I only got space for two more. For two more, and it is my work is a study and a healing and a rewiring. So we rewiring your neural pathways and we do that every single week when we meet and I'm going to ask you certain questions and I have tools and all of that to to rewire your circuitry, because your circuitry needs to be default. I believe in myself. You're going to have doubt, yes, of course, but if that's your default, if that is dominating 60 to 70 to 80% of your thoughts a day are coming from the source of the dick then something is off. So we rewire that in a very neurosciency way and with tools, and it's a process over the four months. It's a four month package.

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Things don't happen just like yesterday. This is years and years of thinking this way, most likely, and then it's a healing. It's a healing of the wounds that fuel the inner critic, right. It's a healing of the wounds in you that have caused this imposter syndrome the wounds of not being enough, the wounds of I'm not special enough to be seen, the wounds of I don't have what it takes, the wounds that were created when your teachers, your parents, all of them told you you couldn't, or you were this, or you were to that, or you weren't enough this. So it's a healing of the wounds. And that's something I've come to be quite surprised about because, yeah, every client that I've I've taken through my process has been like, wow, I didn't expect this to be so healing. So it is a beautiful, beautiful healing. It's a healing of your relationships too.

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I have a whole module on resentment and clearing resentment from your field better than, I think, any other coach out there, because most manifestation coaches or mindset coaches just use ho'oponopono and we do touch on that. But I have a process where you get to see all your patterns and all the ways you are contributing in, in the, in those resentments, and then to release them. It's really amazing. It's a, it's a great process, um, and then it's also a study, and it's a spiritual study of all these things. And it's it's a study of what I believe to be the core, core, core principles of spirituality that we see in every religion and every practice. And it's not to get something, it's a. It's not just to like be a good goal and manifest, or be positive and manifest, or to like be rich or whatever. No, it's a spiritual study of how to be rich in your soul and your wisdom.

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One-on-one. Send me a DM on Instagram, tell me you're ready and we can have a chat in the DMs. I just want to hear what's motivating you and then from there we can hop on a free 30 minute call and take it from there and I'm very not a pushy person at all we're going to really make sure this is the right fit for both of us. And if you have, you know, fears around finances or fears around time, like is it the right time those are usually the biggest things like oh, just like why, like I don't know if now's the right time or I don't know if you know it's a big investment, investing in myself we can chat about that on the call and I'm very open and I want what's best for you and I would never, ever want to put someone in a dangerous financial position and I would never want to overwhelm anyone in terms of time.

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I want people to be able to get the most out of my programs and they are a commitment, but that's it. Like. This is a commitment, you're not going to get a, a quick fix and, yeah, there unfortunately are no quick fixes out there. I think there's a lot of that being sold. But, yeah, so we can just chat about those things and I can help coach you through them not to coach you through them to get to your truth about those two things, not coach you through them to get you to say yes on the call. That's not my style. And then you know if, if you need an extended payment plan or something, we can speak about that.

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And then the other offering I wanted to give as coaches, my coaches internationally. I am looking at doing a kind of an accelerator and what it's going to look like is eight weeks together, you and I, and we'll do six one-on-one coaching calls over those eight weeks. So you'll do three on, one week off and you're going to do the first seven weeks of my program at the same time. So you're going to be studying the program and we're going to be meeting in that hour and I'm going to help you to hone down on your messaging, hone down on your uniqueness, find your worthiness, get the dick out of the way so that you can start channeling your freaking true gifts and your true message and your true uniqueness and authenticity to the world. Because there's something going on in the coaching industry right now and it's much more evolved than it was even two or three years ago and it's never been more important.

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People who are landing on your page and people who are buying online in whatever you do, in whatever business actually this is not just coaches, anyone online. If they see generic stuff, they're going to move on. That is the truth. And if you are looking to be a leader in this space and if you're looking to be very successful, you have to be so sure on your uniqueness, your authenticity and your message, your origin story and how to communicate to these clients in a very authentic, unique way that is very in line with your power. And if you are not doing that, you will fall, you'll be wasting a lot of time and you'll be wasting a lot of energy and you will just become kind of one of the other person, the other people, the next, you know, the next average Joe, when nothing against the average Joe, they just haven't also found their, their unique authenticity and voice. And so this accelerator is designed to help you get the dick out of the way. And then I'm also going to help you. So the the program is the study of how to rewire that inner critic and to get clear on your mission and your vision and your spirituality and invite that deep, deep spiritual practice in to your work and to your well, just to your life. And then, in our one-on-one coaching sessions, I'm going to help you get clear on your uniqueness even further in terms of your business, your uniqueness, your message, how to put your stuff out there, how to structure your business. If you want that.

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Making five to 10K months is not that hard. In terms of strategy, it's not that hard. They're very basic things that need to be in place. What is hard is showing up every single day and this is for any actually get made like the next level of success. For most people it's not that hard. What's hard is the mindset to be consistent, the mindset to believe in yourself every day, the mindset to be this creative channel degree if you are a coach, and so what's hard is getting the dick out of the way all the time so that you can deliver your best work and creatively, and have this fun with your business and this bliss with your business and have fun putting your work out there and have fun creating and when you are clear on your unique gifts and your authenticity and your mission and your vision, it's just so much freaking harder like easier, sorry to do that without the dick in the way. So, coaches, it is a two-month accelerator, eight weeks. You get all the time, like Voxer, voice notes, support from me. I use WhatsApp and if someone wants that one, dm me, coach, and we can have a chat about it there as well and hop on a call and see if this is a good fit for you. And there are extended payment plans available for that too.

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Yeah, I'm really excited about that space because I've been wanting to work with coaches. I love I've been really wanting to work with coaches for a while. I mean I do already. There's. Josie just popped in here and said she's so excited for her session. She signed up last week. Actually, go follow her. She's incredible Josie underscore Thorne. She's incredible. Josie underscore Thorne, t-h-o-r-n-e. She is an incredible womb priestess and she helps women reconnect with the wisdom of their womb and heal the energy in their womb and use that to find their power and their light in this world. So, 100% go there. We just started working together last week and, yeah, I've worked with I've already worked with a bunch of coaches and now I think what was different was in the past it was just pure mindset and getting the inner critic out the way, and now this accelerator is designed for that. You're going to do that study of my program and then also starting to help coaches with strategy and like finding their unique voice and finding their unique message to help them get to three, five, 10k months. And the other thing I wanted to say on that was the reason I've been avoiding it and avoiding just going directly to coaches is because I love working with an array of women. But watch this space because I might pivot at some point eventually, fully, I'm in, I'm in a transitionary period. So, you guys, this is the end of this live stream, the end of this podcast. I'm doing two things at once optimizing love, to optimize If you've watched this or listened to this and you have any questions, please let me know.

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If you want to get started on this work, I have an incredible workbook that people have been raving about. Again, yeah, my work is unique. You guys, I'm a bit like, again, the ego thing. I don't want to be putting out shit that everyone else is doing and, yes, some of my tools are similar, because there are these universal tools to rewiring or rewiring limiting beliefs in the mind and all that kind of stuff and creating success and overcoming self-doubt and imposter syndrome. Sure, but it really is my mission to always give people a super, super rich, full and unique experience and something they haven't really done before and something that actually works on a cellular and spiritual level. That is my commitment all the time and I'm very proud in that. That's why I say it's an ego thing.

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I'm like I just can't stand doing what everyone else is doing, this but like the rebel in me is so strong. This is why I haven't watched the Taylor Swift documentary, because I just know it's going to make me love her and I just don't want to be another person that loves Taylor Swift, beyonce as well. I'm just like I see everyone like loving these people. I'm like I don't want to be like everyone. I'm just going to avoid that and it's. It's like. It's really silly and it's an amazing part of who I am, that rebellious, prideful. I want to be different. It's definitely helping me in business and helps me to be authentic and unique and stand for that business. And helps me to be authentic and unique and stand for that. But also like, just chill, bitch, just just chill. I feel like I'm.

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I had a huge aha over the last couple of days. I was like I'm missing out on like codes and I actually spoke about this in the beginning of this live stream and podcast about how we all have codes, and I hope you got some of the codes that I shared today and my story and these nuggets that, like you know, when your mind just pops open and you like have a possibility, becomes like available, like an energy pocket opens for you and you're like, yes, it kind of like an aha moment, but there's something deeper when someone like has these codes and they're showing you, they're unlocking these things inside of you. You know it's my mission to stoke your fire, to stoke the fire in your belly that is flying Well. You know, anyway, what I'm trying to say is Beyonce and Taylor Swift have some serious codes and I need to stop being so stubborn. So, watch this space. I'm going to watch the Taylor Swift documentary because I actually want to receive her magic instead of being this like stubborn little, this stubborn ass that just doesn't want to be like another Swifty. Yeah, and also, I don't know if any coaches are listening to this Anyone. Actually, we are so disconnected from our creativity and you know, know, someone like Beyonce, someone like Taylor Swift are incredible activators for our creativity, so we get to receive their creativity and then they can activate creativity in us and that will come out through your coaching business and through your content and all of that. And so that's kind of like.

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My next level now is I want to start, like I just going to start watching the Taylor Swift documentaries so that I can get activated and receive those codes and be expanded. You know, all right, you guys I'm sure no one was here from all the way in the beginning, from all the way in the beginning um, bless you all. Blessings and abundance on you all. Something I've been doing when I leave a uber. Um, I've been ubering a lot because I don't have a car in South Africa right now and, um, I'm always like I wish you lots and lots of business and like they always love it. So I have this like abundance blessing. I was always over tip, um, it's my way of like activating abundance in the universe. So I'm going to say the same thing to you guys I wish you lots and lots of business, or lots and lots of success in your career, or, um, lots and lots of love. I wish you pockets of love from the people around you. So, yeah, thank you for joining, guys.

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You know where to find me. If you want to work with me, one-on-one DM me ready. If you want to get involved in the coaching accelerator that I'm running, one-on-one DM me coach and just take the leap. Let's hop on a call. You're going to get so much out of that call and it will either be a good fit or not a fit, and let that be your first courageous step and if I can't help you for some reason or it's not a good fit, I will always point you in the right direction of where you can find this thing that would suit you better, whether it's time or money or whatever is the reason why it's not a good fit, or maybe we just don't vibe on the call. That's also cool. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. I'll send you to someone I think you will like. I'll be like yeah, okay, guys.

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The last thing I wanted to say is, if you're listening to the podcast episode, I'm going to post my booking link in the short notes so you can just book something there. So thank you for listening to this. Thank you for listening to my updated story and dreaming big. I'm here to activate you. I'm here to call you forth into your fucking greatness because I'm sick and tired of seeing people play small. Can't do it. It's hurting your soul and it's hurting mine. We all have the same soul, so I'm ready for this. Stick around. I love you all. Stay golden.